Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll!

We're hopping in these threads:

• Email: BDSM in the Bible Belt
• My (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme. How do I navigate this?
• Friendship gone sour: I (33F) have completely ghosted a close friend (35F) of a decade. Is there a better approach to end this friendship?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up!

We're hopping in these email:

• What it means to be polyam/ENM
• Roommates to lovers
• Goal based partners
• Batting out of his league update

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share!

We're hopping in these topics:

• Friend Batting Out of His League
• Boundary Breaking Degradation Sub
• Home For The Polydays
• Woke White GF
• Autoromantic Anon

Thanks for listening!

Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_ @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Not OUR break up mind you, there's just a lot of breaking up

We're hopping in these threads:

• EMAIL: Update from anon
• EMAIL: Friends growing distant
• My (35M) girlfriend (33F) is urging me to quit my band because she doesn't like the other members. How do I explain to her that it isn't fair for her to make me do this?
• BIL(40M) tried to make a pass on me(31F), told husband (35M)and he didn’t react! What am I supposed to do with that?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

Email: ourrapodcast@gmail.com

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Guests are back and we're hanging with the amazing OJ Stellar! What a time to be had!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My (31F) Husband (31F) and I Cannot Handle My Mom (60F) and Dad's (75M)'s Decisions?
• I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5 dates. Is this common for guys to do?
• I (20F) have reason to believe my boyfriend (22M) stole my passport (together 2 yrs). How do I talk to him about this?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: OJ Stellar is @ojstellar, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

Email: ourrapodcast@gmail.com

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We spend a good bit of time yapping in this one. We spent 5 days in Vegas and somehow only talk about MagicCon and not about that fact that Ify won $14, until you take into consideration that the Casino ATM fee was $12...

We're hopping in these threads:

• I [27F] decided to shoot my shot with my guy friend [27M], but what signs did I misread?
• [27M] My ex-girlfriend [25F] pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I'm left broken. Any Advice?
• I [38M] met her [42F] after 15 years. How do I handle the possibility that I possibly have a child with her?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshopPodcastwithIfyandEmily

Email: ourRApodcast@gmail.com

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Wednesday is basically Tuesday, so let's just go with that! Got an email and some reddit questions! Let's boogie!

We're hopping in these threads:

• Email: Accidental ghosting
• My (38F) husband (36M) completely dropped the ball on our wedding day - how to move past it?
• I (29F) want to tell my husband's (34M) affair partner (21F) that she is the other woman in the most supportive way possible. If you've been the other woman, what would you want me to say and what would make you leave him?
• My (28f) boyfriend (33m) started dating my friend after we opened the relationship. Where to go from here?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

Email: ourrapodcast@gmail.com

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Look at us getting you your new episode on time for your commute! I'm proud of us! Happy Tuesday, y'all! This one is a rollercoaster of emotions and a lot of open and shut cases, but that doesn't mean we don't get to have a great discussion about it!! Come one, come all, to the messiest show on the internet!

We're hopping in these threads:

• Me(20 M) and my gf (18F) had a fight due to her obsession with her ex and she somehow thinks I am just being insecure. I need advice as to how exactly I should solve this problem or like is this relationship just done for?
• I (32f) think that I have to break up with my fiancé (35m) after he embarrassed me in public over a sandwich
• My partner 25M and i 24F have broken up but he still wants to remain friends and i was wondering if anyone has an ex to friends to lovers again story?
• What if I (M18) feel uncomfortable that my gf (F18) told me she wants to get passed around?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

Email: ourrapodcast@gmail.com

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