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Many people find doing self-reflection difficult or troublesome. They don’t understand why they need it, and they don’t see the benefits of doing self-reflection. Why is self-reflection important for you?

Self-reflection allows you to understand and see things from a different point of view. When you take a step back from a situation, you gain a new understanding. You can see the whole picture, not just the piece of the puzzle. You become more open-minded. Here’s a question that takes some self-reflection.

Have you considered what it’s like to be married to you? Most of us go through times when we think such things. But have you considered… just how easy is it to be married to YOU?

Certainly, your spouse may have many faults that you can point out but you need to reflect on your own actions too. Most of the time, we are too busy thinking about how our partner treats us. We put so much time and effort to make sure our partner does their job. But when we overly focus on our partner’s flaws, we tend to overlook their strength and kindness.

Without even realizing it, we can slip into a routine of minimal effort on how we treat our loved ones. This is why self-reflection is important. It creates a check and balance. By reflecting on how you treat your partner, you can make changes that lead to a more harmonious relationship.

When you start to self-evaluate on a regular basis, you will begin to see which area you can improve. By doing this, you can understand your current relationship even better. It also can make you more appreciative of your partner. Self-reflection is a process to take a hard look at who you are and how you can be better. It also helps you figure out the life principles that you want to practice. Remember, your relationship starts with you.

When you are becoming your best self, you will attract true and long-lasting love. The power to create the love relationship that you desire is in your hands.

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In this episode, I'll tell you my personal experience with what happened to my first marriage and how it prepared me for my 2nd and last marriage.

Just to give you some definition of what is a manipulative person. People who manipulate use mental distortion and emotional exploitation to influence and control others. Their intent is to have power and control over others to get what they want.

A manipulator knows what your weaknesses are and will use them against you.1 This will keep happening unless you actively and assertively put a stop to it. That said, it is not always easy. Stopping manipulation in a marriage can be difficult because it might have started out subtle. Over time, manipulation can become the everyday dynamic of your relationship with your partner.

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Every couple is different, and what worked for your grandparents or your BFF and her husband may be the complete opposite of what helps you and your significant other. But that doesn't mean you can't learn from other couples! Each long-term marriage has its own secret to success. How well do you know your partner? Do they have the qualities that help you become a better person? Do they have habits that make you think twice about your relationship? Have you had the chance to get to know both the best and the worst parts of them? These are the questions that if answered, can help you realize if you’re with the right person or not. However, you should also keep in mind that not all relationships are perfect, and keeping an open mind about which imperfections are worth your understanding is important. In this episode, we're playing another skin-deep card game(Healing Edition) Round 2.

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If you have a good marriage, everything else seems perfect. But if your marriage is struggling, then it doesn’t really matter what else is good; a tension-filled home can easily carry over into the rest of your life. Being married isn’t always a piece of cake. There’s actually a lot of work that goes into living “happily ever after.

It’s not always easy to see past minor annoyances, and at times you may even hate your partner. But to have a happy marriage you have to accept your partner’s strengths and weaknesses and be able to set realistic expectations.

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