Turn any meeting or get-together into a chance for deep connection and collaboration.

Whether you’re holding a team meeting or hosting a family get-together, the success of any gathering, says Priya Parker, isn’t about the perfect agenda or venue, but about the intentionality behind how you bring people together.

“90% of the success of any gathering happens before anyone enters the room,” says Parker. As the author of The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters, and a strategic advisor who has helped organizations worldwide reimagine their gatherings, Parker believes that thoughtful preparation can turn any meeting, whether professional or personal, into a meaningful and memorable experience for all involved. “Intentionality is the first step,” she says, “to pause and ask: why are we doing this? What is the purpose? What is the need in this community or in this classroom or in this team?”

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Parker joins Matt Abrahams to explore the art of meaningful gatherings, sharing practical strategies for everything from crafting invitations that prime engagement to designing powerful closings that leave a lasting impact. By being more thoughtful in bringing people together, we can transform ordinary meetings into extraordinary opportunities for connection and collaboration.

Episode Reference Links:

• Priya Parker
• Priya’s Book: The Art of Gathering
• Ep.124 Making Meetings Meaningful, Pt. 1: How to Structure and Organize More Effective Gatherings
• Ep.125 Making Meetings Meaningful, Pt. 2: Key Ingredients for Effective Meetings

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (01:24) - Intentionality in Everyday Conversations
• (03:10) - Questioning the Purpose of Gatherings
• (05:18) - The Power of Great Questions
• (08:21) - Managing Heat in Conversations
• (10:30) - Encouraging Participation Beforehand
• (13:10) - Creating Impactful Endings
• (15:36) - The Final Three Questions
• (18:30) - Conclusion

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Master holiday conversations.

The holiday season is a time of joy, connection, and, occasionally, communication challenges and as we gather with family, friends, and colleagues, effective communication becomes crucial. To help make this time more enjoyable, this special Think Fast Talk Smart “Rethinks” episode revisits favorite “recipes” from past Stanford guests along with Matt’s advice for tackling three common holiday scenarios: contributing effectively to ongoing conversations, engaging in meaningful small talk, and managing conflict with clarity and empathy. Whether it's making small talk or resolving conflicts, these strategies aim to turn holiday communication hurdles into opportunities for connection and collaboration.

Episode Reference Links:

• Ep.169 Don't Be a ZQ: Make Your Conversations Count

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (01:59) - Challenge 1: Inserting Your Voice into Conversations
• (03:14) - Expert Insights on Inserting Ideas
• (05:00) - Challenge 2: Mastering Small Talk
• (06:36) - Expert Strategies for Small Talk
• (08:38) - Challenge 3: Managing Holiday Conflicts
• (10:25) - Expert Tips for Conflict Resolution
• (12:02) - Conclusion

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"Start with the action moment or right before it," advises Hilary Price whose one-panel comic strips offer insights far beyond humor—they’re lessons in concise storytelling that resonate with anyone seeking to communicate effectively. “Simplify and amplify,” Price advises, emphasizing the art of clarity and impact. Every stroke of her pen strips away the unnecessary, letting the essentials shine through.
Creating her daily comic strip, Rhymes with Orange, Price starts with the game of “what if,” merging unexpected ideas to surprise and engage her readers. “You want to start at the action moment—or just before,” she notes, pointing out how the unsaid often speaks louder. Price extends this philosophy beyond cartoons: whether crafting a presentation, a joke, or a story, it’s essential to leave room for the audience to co-create meaning. “Don’t spoon-feed your readers,” she says. “The joy comes from not getting it, then getting it.”
In this bonus episode of Think Fast Talk Smart, Price joins host Matt Abrahams to explore the power of surprise, stakes, and shared experience in storytelling—reminding us that the punchline, whether in humor or communication, is where the magic happens.

Episode Reference Links:

• Hilary Price
• Rhymes With Orange
• Ep.170 Advice From Nontraditional Storytellers Part 1
• Ep.171 Advice From Nontraditional Storytellers Part 2

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (02:45) - What Makes a Good Story?
• (03:38) - Crafting a Story
• (04:58) - Auditioning the Characters
• (08:02) - Stories in Daily Life
• (09:50) - Visuals in Storytelling
• (11:37) - The Power of a Punchline
• (13:44) - Admired Storytellers
• (15:41) - Communicating with Titles
• (17:13) - Conclusion

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